DRUGS NO JOKING MATTER

I really believe this topic should have been on the module. Well my thoughts on DRUGS are they are BAD. There are all types of drugs prescription, illegal, etc. All have there way of getting a person hooked so that they are dependent to them BADLY.

With prescripted drugs these are what you get from the doctors. You start taking them for pain or as a anti depressed. Then you like how you feel when your on them. So when the pain stops you don't you continue using them even when their is nothing WRONG with you. Now a long time use could end up with you being PHYSICALLY and MENTALLY dependent on them. This action could lead you to do some crazy things.

Illegal drugs are BAD and I really believe from watching friends that I grew up with. They started smoking weed in the park and enjoying the BUZZ that they got. However 10 years on the same people who was once chilling with a spliff are now take CRACK and COKE. It seems to me that once they get use to the BUZZ they need something else with a BIGGER BUZZ and this ends up with them taking something more HARDER. I am not saying that every person who smokes weed gonna move onto HARDER stuff. I just saying that people with an addictive personality if gonna think that they could try it and it would effect them. But is not always the case.

This topic has affected me BADLY not me personality but though very close friends, that have struggled to break away for the drug addiction but felt like they could not as much as they tried. Resulting in death. So even now 6 years on I am struggling now to make sense of why my close friend ain't here chilling with friends and living life.

If you feel like you need help there the priory in Birmingham:

http://www.prioryhealthcare.com/Find-a-centre/Facilities/Woodbourne-Priory-Birmingham

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Paedophilia/ Rape

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I agree with everything you it is the worse crime that can happen alongside rape. It makes me physically sick that there are people out there all over the world that get a kick out of doing these sickening crimes to innocent children. I also agree with you that the BRITISH justice system favours the villains rather than help the victims. The judges seem like that they don't follow the same rules. Because if someone in BIRMINGHAM was found guilty they could receive a LIFE sentence. However someone in WALES that as done the same nasty crime could receive only TWO years.

Please, please, please try and help me understand what the HELL is happening to this so called justice system.

The latest one that I read lately was about a 3 year old girl and a dirty, evil ******* called Craig Sweeney. He took her from her house and subjected her to a sickening act, dumped her and he can get parole in 5 yrs time. Now the words that I want to say can not be put on this blog and what I really think about what should happen to him as got physically stuck in my throat. (not).

I really understand why some parents are wary of letting their children play out, because realistically you don't know who is one it could be the man over the road.

But trust me if there was CAPITAL PUNISHMENT not even hanging is BAD enough for them.

I believe that these sickening people don't deserve to ever be with normal human being and society again. This topic really gets to me so much that I am going now.

To read more information:

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/2006/06/13/npaed13.xml

Lying

I was not in the lecture for this lesson, but I get what the subject was LYING. I believe everyone LIES even when your trying not too. It's like a habit that we can not stop even when we try not to ever do it. If people say to me that in their whole life-time they have never LIED then your LYING right now.

I feel that there is a difference in the lies that you tell. There are WHITE LIES when someone asks you a question and you don't wanna hurt their feelings, you may bend the true a bit. For example:

A woman asks her man that 'DOES MY BUM LOOK BIG IN THIS'. He is not gonna come straight out with it and say 'YES' your bum does look massive. He's gonna bend the truth a little, so not to upset her too much.

There are people that have duvet days from work, where they LIE and say that they are ill, when their fine. So that they can stay and chill at home.

Everyone LIES to get themselves out of things. I heard a GOOD/BAD LIE that really did shock me recently. Don't know how true it is, well here goes:

A person went to a gig the night before a test, they didn't realise it was for the next day. They saw someone from their class that same night who informed them, that the test was the next day. Believing that they know everything they continued partying. However guess what it was their test day. So what could this person do tell the teacher the TRUTH. Hell no go straight to the doctors and say how their body part is hurt, so they can get a sick note and still get to take the test at a later date. Well I say I guess that LYING really pays off sometimes, lets hope this LIE doesn't backfire. Because if they ended back in this situation again I believe they would do the same thing if they could get away with it again, which they probably would.

There are many people that are compulsive LIES that they LIE all the time. This can cause so really BAD problems.

If you feel that you need help read this website:

http://www.justbewell.com/compulsive_lying_hypnotherapy_nlp_help_london.html?gclid=COilsdCgg4wCFRgHEgod32LoyQ

Gambling

The lecture was not the most interesting one and people showed this by walking out. However to me gambling is not BAD it is up to the individual how little or how much they spend. Yes it can lead to serious debt, which can affect these around them. But I don't mean to be heartless but everyone is aware of the dangers and the situation that can happen if they spend too much, but half the time their own trying to make their life better, which you can not blame them for that.

Gambling as and will always be a poor man's sport. Its the one quick way a person can become a millionaire, without running out and robbing a bank. If people are honest with themselves they would never see that much money in their whole life-time, even if they saved for it.

Its ashamed that even I gamble now and again and I have that same dream where my son and I can live comfortable without having to worry about money problems. It's became worse now I am a poor student.

If your only having fun, here is a website:

http://www.gambling.co.uk

However if you think that you need help here is another website:
http://www.gamcare.org.uk

Violence on the street

Hi all,

What can I say, why is there so much violence in the world. You can't even go out anywhere without witnessing violent crimes. This very night my friend and I went out and yet again we ended up experiencing the same rubbish. Fights breaking out and bouncers trying to break up the commotion, police being called, shutting down the club. Now that's BAD. There are 2 reasons why I hate being in these situations cause I have thoughts running through my head 1st one is I have to leave the club safe cause I've got a child waiting for me at home... The 2nd one is why do they feel the need to wreck MY night I don't go out much and to finally go out to have the bar close at 12.00 because people cannot conducted themselves properly, gets on my nerves and makes me want to stay in.. I have noticed that as I mature the violence gets worse and worse. On a daily basics people are being KILLED from GUNS or KNIVES which is also scary and it makes me worry what the violence will be like when my son is of age. This thought frightens me so much now that is BAD. I've done my moaning now I'm off. bye

Hi is everyone enjoying the easter break.... I've been busy sorting out my son's b'day party which was on easter monday and doing essays so NO I haven't..

I'm now reflecting over the topics that we've learnt and they aint really BAD. Some was more shocking than BAD . I'll have to wait to find ot if the other 3 topics are really BAD.But if I'm honest their are other topics I thought would have been on here that are BAD : like rape/ date rape, child abuse, domestic violence etc... All of the above are DISGUSTING and EVIL things that happen and occur everyday, we see it portrayed in the media on a daily basics. When I sat down and started to think about it logically, it all about gaining power over someone, whether its a guy raping a woman, a child being assaulted by a adult or even a husband hitting his wife. Its about having and feeling that power and control that they can degraded the victim as much as they want and feel that nothing can stop them. My heart goes out to all the victims that suffer this BAD and WICKED things. I'm looking at my son and realise how can a person harm a innocent child its heart wrenching. There is innocent Victoria Climbie and all the other child who suffer abuse till they are murdered. The child forced to watch and suffer domestic violence every day that is what I would class as BAD not masturbating, body modification or gambling, smoking. This is all down to the individuals taste and personal preference.

I did wonder when I started this module what it had to do with Social Care but I have enjoyed learning the topics. It maked me think hard about what is really BAD.

This field trip I really can't think of anything too interesting that people would enjoy. Trust me I'm not normally this boring? But I'll decide before we break for summer.

Bad Cinema

On week 9 it was Bad Cinema we watched a film called 'KIDS'. Larry Clark produced and released it in 1995. They gave the film a NC-17 so that no one under 18 could watch it. That is how BAD they said it was.... It felt like I was watching a documentary on the lives of teenagers doing all the BAD things that society class as BAD from smoking, taking drugs and having sex.
I was watching the film and thought that I was the same age or older than these 'Kids' in 1995 and I was amazed not because I'm a prune or anything but on what they actually was doing cause I never dreamed of doing such a thing. Basically I never seen 'Kids' before and here is a story cut short:-

The main characters were Telly & Casper and we follow their quest to sleep around. Telly liked young virgins who he told sweet nothings to, to get them to sleep with him... Anyone older would never fall for the bull that comes out of his mouth cause he's so bloody smug you would feel like hitting him and his friend Casper was a drunk and drug user who ended up raping Jenny when she was drunk and stoned surrounded by sleeping children.... need I go on...

I never felt sorry for Telly at all, but later on in the film it turns out that Jenny had caught HIV from him this is the guy who only apparently slept with virgins.... I did feel really sorry for her, cause she only slept with ONE guy and her friend who she got tested had slept with NINE and was clear. I felt the message that Larry Clark was portraying was that it can only take ONE time to have unprotected sex and catch AIDS or other STI's . That is why their was a lot of problems trying to release this film, because the individual never wanted to know that their child could be carrying on like the 'KIDS' in the movie... If I am honest the smoking, taking drugs and having sex is what society see as ADULT stuff, it would have been a waste of Larry Clarke's time using ADULTS that's why he used 'KIDS' instead to make it shocking and no one would have learnt the lesson he was trying to get make. There was a scene that I found disturbing when loads of kids started fighting this one guy and nearly left the guy dead. This reminded me of what is happening in the world now. I have seen this with my whole eyes and its not good at all. To me KIDS in society nowadays are either doing ONE or ALL of these things fighting, drinking, taking drugs and the raise in sexual transmitted infection has rocked so its like history repeating its self, which is really really BAD.

I just wish that 'KIDS' wasn't so quick too grow up.